Showing posts with label France. Show all posts
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Monday, July 16, 2012

Weekend of Chill

What kind of day was today? The kind of day where I don't eat dinner until 9:45PM, because I didn't leave the office until 9:00PM. And then I was at this restaurant in Little Italy, and kept getting "ciao Bella'd" by the male waitstaff. I can't tell if it was subtle quasi-pickup line, or if it is just an Italian thing.

Luckily, this weekend was not like today. First, I slept in really late. Like really late. But, considering I work long days (like today, although this was *way* longer than normal) perhaps it is just my body getting what it needs on the weekend. Stock up for the next week or whatever. But, since each day, between waking up late, and putzing around getting ready, I didn't really leave the apartment until 2:30PM each day. So I couldn't do anything epic or touristy that took several hours. Which, frankly, was fine. It's nice to have a relaxing day.

Saturday I walked around the West Village/Greenwich Village, because it was not a neighborhood I had yet been to. And, it was *Borat voice* very nice. Lots of boutiquey shops and little bars and cutesy restaurants, everything of course overpriced. I could definitely tell it is another place where the other half lives. And I really liked it. Because let's face it, I have stupid expensive tastes. I did manage to find some new brown (leather!) flats for not that much (sale!) at one of these boutiques. I had been looking for a pair because the brown flats I have now-- which are a very useful thing to have, btw-- are a couple years old and have seen better days. I also *might* have had a slice of cake as the first thing I ate in the day. I was walking down the street, and saw a line out the door at this one bakery. I figured if there was a line like that, it must be a thing, and I should try it. So I got in line, got my slice of lemon cake, and went and sat on a park bench. The bakery is Magnolia Bakery, and apparently, as I learned after, it is a thing. The case was super moist and crumbly, but I do think it could have been a bit more lemony in flavor. But all and all, a nice slice of cake. And it was very pleasant to sit on a bench in a little park in a neighborhood square, eating cake, relaxing and people-watching. I did a lot sitting and relaxing and people watching. At this square, at another park/square thing in the neighborhood, at a fountain along the water on the west side (very pretty seeing the sun set over the Hudson, looking on to New Jersey. That was my favorite part of the day, just sitting there and relaxing as day turned to dusk). This is pretty much what I did when I wasn't walking around, just seeing what was there.

I also managed to pick up another decor item for the apartment. I went to this store that was like furniture and household accessories, called MXYPLYZYK (seriously. And no, I don't know how to say that). It was definitely my style: more modern than not, but with a bit of quirk. Like higher quality and more legit versions of the type of style of things you might see in the household stuff section of Urban Outfitters. I ended up buying a small decorative vase that I think will go well with what little color scheme there is (all my furniture is dark brown or black), and help bring more color into the place. I felt awful though. I was looking at this set of three bowls (kind of Asiatic in style, like rice or sauce bowls). I was kind of drawn towards them because they had owls on them, and it's kind of a thing with my sorority. If you aren't in a sorority, you definitely won't understand, so just take my word for it. They were in these boxes, which had their fronts exposed, stacked one bowl on top of the other, with some cardboard between. Stupid me, I thought that the bowls would be somehow tied down or secured in their packaging (I guess from a lifetime of growing up in California, where everything is secured as much as possible because, earthquakes). Well, they weren't and I ended up dumping two of the ceramic bowls out. I managed to catch one, but the other smashed to the ground and shattered. So, I ended up with two owl bowls to boot. The guy discounted the price to reflect the lesser bowl, but I still felt terrible. I didn't mind picking up the extra bowls-- it was right, considering I had just smashed one and the set was now ruined in terms of selling to someone else, and they are relevant to my life-- but I just felt so stupid and embarrassed and sorry. But the owner and the associate were just really nice about it. Like really nice about it, and were reassuring me that it was fine, didn't even raise any voice or anything. So that was appreciated, because I am pretty sure that as I was signing the receipt, my hand was shaking a bit. So yeah, in conclusion: if you are in New York, you should totally check out MXYPLYZYK, not only because they have cool stuff, but because the owner and his staff are good people.

The other thing I learned about the West Village, is that it is basically New York's answer to the Castro in San Francisco, and Boystown in Chicago. Except-- to my surprise, given NYC's history-- not as extreme. So that was interesting. I think I may have found the original Stonewall bar. The Stonewall thing was New York, right? Not San Francisco? I should know this having grown up in the Bay Area, but I forget things like this easily. So, it was fun and quirky in that way, too.

To end the day I decided I wanted to see a fun movie. So I decided I wanted to see Rock of Ages. Unfortunately, it was only playing at a theatre in Times Square (seriously, why do I always inevitably wind up back in Times Square?). So I had to fight the touristas. But it was worth it: the movie was very entertaining, was surprisingly good (since I had not seen, but was nonetheless skeptical, of the musical) and had like a solidly legit cast (Seriously: Mary J. Blige, Alec Baldwin, Paul Giamatti, Russell Brand, and of course Tom Cruise). And was a genuinely "feel-good movie." After Tropic Thunder and now this, it is official: Tom Cruise is at his best when he is playing batshit, mildly self-parodying roles. Although, given what's gone down in Tom's life as of late, there was something unintentionally poignant about the role he played in the movie. You'd have to see it though to see what I mean.

Sunday was even less adventuresome. I headed up to the Upper East Side, got some lunch at a Thai place, and headed over to Barnes and Noble. I've decided that I need some reading material that isn't caselaw or stupid internet news articles. So I picked up like five, wildly different books: Ernest Hemingway on War, Seven Gothic Tales by Isak Dinesen, A Battle for the Soul of Islam, A Farewell to Arms, and The History of the World According to Facebook. Again, wildly different. Then, I took myself over to Central Park, found a bench (actually, a couple benches, since I was at this one, but the weird line dancing and music that was going on about 10 yards away finally drove me to find a quieter, more secluded place), and read. Read the Facebook book first, since it was humorous and a quick read. Then started in on A Farewell to Arms (also, definition of some kind of stereotype (dunno which one): reading Hemingway in Central Park. It's like what female protagonists in Edith Wharton novels do, except for the fact that they probably aren't reading Hemingway because it was either too early yet, or he was a contemporary of that time period). It was so nasty and muggy out on Sunday (to the point of, standing outside for five minutes made me sweat like I had just run five miles) that honestly, sitting and reading was about all one could do without feeling like death.

That was basically my day on Sunday. I was out on the Park for a couple hours, then walked around the Upper East Side for a little while. Note: I love the Upper East Side. Which is a problem, since I saw in a realty office window a listing ad for a 2-bedroom apartment in the neighborhood, renting for $18,000 per month. So... the French should be happy: I also ran into the French Embassy, which is at like 5th Ave and 77th-ish street, right across from Central Park. So pretty much the most expensive real estate in New York. And it isn't exactly small. Your French tax dollars at work!

Below are some pictures I took while at Central Park. Until next time. Actually, I should have lots of updates this week, because I have having kind of a busy week-- things almost every night after work. So thank god my emergency stay-late-at-the-office happened tonight, and not another day.

View of Turtle Pond from Belvedere Castle, Central Park

Belvedere Castle, Central Park. Apparently it was built in 1868/69 as a lookout tower, and was converted into an observatory for the National Weather Service at the turn of the 20th century. Yay for incredibly Victorian Age

Balcony at Castle in front of stone steps leading down to pond

France. Actually kind of literally, since it is the Embassy and Embassies are technically small slices of sovereign soil in a foreign land. Even though it is sitting on some of the most expensive real estate in New York

Also, I checked lilmonsters.org. Lexi still isn't listed as having been adopted. I don't know if it is because they just haven't updated the site, or because the guy decided not to adopt her. I hope it is the former. But if it is that latter, I so wish I could take her with me to Chicago. She deserves a good home. I am still so sad about the pet policy at my building. I kind of wish I had thought about looking around more for a place that allows doggies. But, it is pretty much exactly what we were looking for in every other way: was the right price, location, etc.

But I still want doggie. :(

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Soap Box No. 1

I am not a fan of the fact that it is 11:30 pm already. Somehow, my days are getting skewed later, unintentionally. Oh well.

Anyway, not much to report this evening life-wise. Finished my 3rd of 4 finals. Today was technically the last day of finals, but because of my strep-tastic week last week, which precluded much studying, the law school gods (aka, the Dean of Students) took pity on me and is letting me finish my last exam on Monday. Of which I am super appreciative.

I'd like to say that by Tuesday I'll be done and done with 1L (good bye and good riddance-- even for people not having law school/life crisis, 1L basically sucks. It is a universal truism), but alas this is not really the case. Because we still have the journal writing competition for another week. Whee! And it goes on and on and on...

Today's post is "Soap box," because it is essentially a round up on things I have read, and with which I have either strongly agreed or disagreed. I spend a lot of time on the internet reading articles, and I have "big feelings" about certain things, in the words of my boyfriend. Since a lot of the point of this blog is an outlet to air my thoughts, and to chronicle how I relate to the adult world, from time to time I will take space to comment on certain things I have read.

[To read the article I reference, just copy-paste link into browser. Would take too much space to copy everything here].

1. http://thefire.org/article/14449.html

I am not going to say much about this, because there is not much I could add, except that I agree 110%. One thing you should know about me: I believe in a very broad, very liberal application of free speech. A very close to unrestricted free speech. And I believe that free speech-- as right-- is not something one should only be protected from in terms of the government. If something is a fundamental right-- as we generally conceive those thing codified in the Bill of Rights to be-- then it shouldn't matter who is violating your right or not. What these schools are doing, is wrong. Plain and simple. Free speech wasn't invented so everyone would be nice and courteous to each other all the time. Free speech wasn't invented so people would be shielded from offense, unpleasant discourse, or discomfort. Free speech wasn't invented, so that the only thing a person can openly say or do, is what is "socially accepted" in the area in which that person operates. This is basically, in a nutshell, why I absolutely hate, HATE "political correctness." Other than the fact that reduces what could otherwise be pointed discourse into meaningless drivel, it goes against the very concept of freedom of speech and expression. And to rebut some of the arguments I know people will make: colleges, even private colleges, receive significant federal money from a variety of sources and for a variety of reasons. They are more like quasi-public entities more than anything else. Thus, the same strictures against government intrusion on free speech, should apply to private colleges as well. And no, the types of SCOTUS (Supreme Court of the United States, for those of you not versed in law school note-taking slang) decisions upholding restrictions of speech and expression at school, are only operative at the high school and lower levels, not at the college level.

2. http://shine.yahoo.com/beauty/teen-girl-petitions-seventeen-magazine-stop-airbrushing-models-130000558.html

I readily admit, the airbrushing and stuff done in popular media, is stupid. It is totally fake and, to be honest, I don't actually think it produces a standard of "beauty" that is particularly attractive in the real world, where all angular bodily shapes have not been air-brushed into soft curves. In real life, people who are as skinny or whatever as the models in magazines, are kind of emaciated and pained looking. Like, I don't think the "I-just-got-out-of-the-Gulag" look is particularly attractive. I admit that for a while, when I was in my early teens, I got caught up in the whole "painfully-thin is in" mentality. But then something happened: I got self-esteem, and self-confidence. I stopped caring what other people thought, or how they would or would not judge me, because I was able to get validation from within, from what I did and accomplished as a person. I did not need it from without. Conforming stopped mattering. And so, I think there is the bigger issue here. The big issue is that so many teens and young adults lack self-confidence, lack the "etre dans son peau" as the French would say, that they so desperately need their worth validated by how much they resemble the opinion of popular culture. That they look to pop culture magazines to measure their self-worth, is profoundly sad. I readily admit that I could stand to lose a few pounds and get back into shape, but this is because I generally feel better and more energized with a few pounds off, not because I want to slip into a size 0. So instead of protesting Seventeen magazine, perhaps this young girl should really be getting to the heart of matter, and encouraging girls to get their self-validation from something more meaningful and less shallow.

3. http://news.yahoo.com/obama-campaigns-julia-draws-partisan-debate-191929780--abc-news-politics.html

That stupid crap like this is what passes for important election information, or is something that the campaigns are spending so much time snipping back and forth over, is indicative of why politics in this country is in shambles. I know, instead of debating rationally the issues and platforms of each side, let's have a cat fight in the media over some stupid, fake graphic thing of a hypothetical woman that one of the campaigns decided to create! Now there's some substance for you. The more I read the news, the more I see that politics is less and less about actual ideas, plans and results, and more about sound bites. I fear for the future.

4. http://news.yahoo.com/book-names-iconic-times-square-kissing-couple-world-215724993--abc-news-topstories.html

I have always loved this picture. Sometimes I wish I could have been part of the "greatest generation." Sometimes I wonder if WWII happened today, if my generation or the current younger generations (X, Y) could have pulled the same thing off-- if we could do what had to be done, messy as it may be, instead of wasting time and lives publicly debating the merits of, idk, the strategic bombing of Germany. When I was in France with my family at age 18, visiting the beaches at Normandy (where my dad's father landed at D-Day), we visited this little town. I heard (and saw the evidence of) the most amazing story: there was this old stone church; on the inside of it, we could see old bullet holes in the walls, some broken glass, and dark stains on the wood benches (which I later learned was 60 year old blood). Around the time of D-Day, there had been a big battle in the fields around the town, between the Allies and the Germans who had control of the area. These two American kids-- I think one was 17 or 18, the other 19 or 20-- were part of the "medic" team, although their "medical" training amounted to a few crash-course weeks in boot camp. During the fiercest of the fighting, one of the kids would take an old wheelbarrow, and run out into the field and collect the wounded, and bring them back to this church, where the other kid would work to sew up, dress, clean and treat the wounded as he could. Injured guys were laid out all over the pews, hence the blood stains. The kid kept going out and bringing them in, the other kid kept fixing them as he could, all while stray bullets and the like were whizzing past, into the walls and glass of the church. I believe the guide told us that the kids also didn't discriminate against the wounded-- they brought Germans as well as Americans into the church. I think the guide told us that once the Germans figured this out, the stopped shooting at the runner, so he was able to pick up more people. I don't remember how many people they were able to bring into the church, but I remember it being a lot.

The guys pulling this off were literally kids-- barely into adulthood; the one kid may not have even reached majority yet. As the time, they were my contemporaries, or a little older. Now, they were younger than me, by several years. And yet they pulled off more in the time span of a battle, than I will probably ever pull off in my life. They had to be more brave, than I will probably ever have to be.

I wonder how many people my own age these days, could do what they did. Or how many essentially high schoolers, could do what they did. I don't discount the contributions of our current service members-- they have to do stuff like this every day and more. But because we are a volunteer system, that is only a small segment of the population. Most people these days don't and won't have to face these situations. WWII required epically more participation in the fighting by young men. And even those at home had to sacrifice, if we were going to definitively win the damn thing. Could that many of us pull together, and get it done? Within a year or so after 9/11, after a truly amazing display of national unity in the aftermath of a true tragedy, we were back to the old bickering and polarized partisan BS. My opinion is, that we have had such difficulty in Iraq and Afghanistan, because we try to conduct our wars to "please all the people all the time"-- namely, so the war and its reality doesn't put anyone out, offend or inconvenience those on the home front. And thus people spend so much time bickering about what should and should not be done. I grant that the Iraq war, conceptually, had "issues." But I don't think anyone except really out-there people could plausibly claim that the Afghan war was without cause. But too much of the war is conducted to please the masses, conscious of its "image" in the presses, which IMHO does a disservice: first, it cripples our ability to win a war decisively and second, and worst, it thus causes it to drag on, wasting American as well as civilian lives. The younger generations are so worried about feeling morally superior, so wrapped up in their own perceptions, that they allow wars to be dragged down and down, taking those fighting and those whose lives are being disrupted, down with them. Given this, could we really fight WWII today? Or would we all be speaking German and/or Japanese?

5. http://www.cracked.com/article_19483_5-birds-with-abilities-that-put-superheroes-to-shame_p2.html

Whoa. Birds are scary as shit, yo. Especially the owl. Holy crap. It's like, nature's version of a predator drone meets a stealth bomber. Remind me to never be a rodent. Also, the Lyre bird? Ah-mazing. That's totally nuts. Isn't it interesting that nature has been able to do things in so-called "lower" life forms, that it has taken idk, 5,000 years of technology and 30,000 years of brain development for humanity to reproduce? Finally, I wonder if this means that you could in theory reverse-engineer an Ostrich's DNA, to recreate a T-Rex. Although, why would you want to?

6. http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/cutline/al-qaida-letter-seized-bin-laden-compound-fox-154510302.html

This has got to be the worst insult, like, ever. The whole crux of a major terror plot, hinges its ultimate success/desired results, on the fact that the people planning it, think you utterly suck at your job. Ouch. Sucks to be Joe Biden today. I don't know why everyone hates on Biden so much. I mean, he's kind of innocuous. Like, he's just kind of... there. But again, maybe that's the point. Honestly, people make fun of Biden's verbal gaffes and "dirty" mouth, but I think there should be more "F" bombs in politics. Seriously. It would make politics more "real," people relating to each other on a more "human" level, rather than people putting on aires and politicking and all that crap all the time. Politics, I think, would actually be helped by people relating to each other, and discussing things, like actual people...

Also, LOL Fox News...

Well that's all for tonight. Now I have to do the damn dishes. I feel like I am always doing the dishes. That and homework. Alas.